- The late Alan Quinn. Alan was a tire salesman who worked at White's Truck Tires when I worked there. He was the type of salesman who cast aspersions on his competitors, ran down anyone who disagreed with him, and acted like he was the only one in the world who knew anything about sales and tires. He was a misogynist and a racist of the first order. Once when he was recruiting a guy to come to work for us he showed the recruit a brochure and he proudly stated, "See, look a there, they ain't a black face in the bunch." Alan was a staunch Republican, adulterer, and liar. He's dead now. His karma caught up with him at the age of 49. When he went in the hospital for surgery to repair a slipped disc they found out he had cancer and he was dead 4 months later.
- The late Paul Steele. He was my crazy aunt's third or fourth husband. He was a hardcore racist from day one. He refused to volunteer to fight in the Korean War because he was afraid he might have to take orders from a black man. He would complain bitterly that blacks had taken over "pro ball." He lived a long life full of hatred for people who had a different skin color than he did. And for good measure he also hated young people, gays, and hippies as well.
I wish there were some way I could contact those two dead racist assholes so that I could make them watch a black man become President of the United States.
I'd also like to dedicate the inauguration of Barack Obama to the following nice people:
- My first best friend Aaron Lewis's mother. Mrs. Lewis was a hard working black woman who worked two, sometimes three jobs to keep a roof over her family's head and to put food on their table. If she's still alive I hope she's enjoying seeing all the fuss and pageantry surrounding Obama. I lost touch with Aaron many years ago when I moved out of Detroit after my mom died and I want to dedicate this historic event to him as well.
- My parents. Both Mom and Dad instilled in me from a very young age the fact that all people are equal and that just because someone has a different color skin than I do that doesn't make them bad or a lesser person than me. Like a lot of kids who were born in the early '60's I sometimes repeated the 'N' word and when they heard me use it they'd often give me a smack in the mouth and tell me to never say that word again. And when I got done crying they'd tell me that saying that word was bad because it was demeaning to them and it made me look like a bigoted idiot when I said it.
I've said it before and I'll say it again, I never thought this, a black man becoming President, would happen in my lifetime. It's a pleasure to be witnessing positive history being made after so many years of Bush's blundering. Obama and the rest of us have a lot of problems facing us and I hope we can come together and reclaim the promise of America that Bush and Cheney stole from us. Let's celebrate on this historic day and then tomorrow let's roll up our sleeves and get to work.
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Great post. I still live in an area where the "N" word is used regularly - and really pisses me off. I should hope we can move forward from this point on.
Yay! It's a beautiful day. Come listen to my mini concert.
i am joyful today.
It doesn't matter to me if Obama is the best president we ever had or somewhere in the middle (we know he can't possibly be at the bottom -- hopefully, we've seen that already); I think his election brings out the best in Americans.
I just can't help but think of miserable racists, though, forced to endure MLK Day, followed immediately by the first non-white president's inauguration. Think of the crushed Budweiser cans hurled at TV screens in frustration!
I take no joy in knowing the racists out there are angry and afraid. I take joy in knowing that, in spite of their anger and their fear, their lives will be made better because this man is now our President.
With any luck, the first two guys a smoking a turd in hell with Hitler.
And God bless the other three.
Doc
Good to see that Hate is back in America!
Really, should we take joy in seeing anyone die with cancer? I would never condone racism of any type or form, but good God, I can never condone Hate that is here on this post and in few comments like smoking a turd in hell with Hitler.
You really have choice here. You can enjoy and rejoice in this,a breakthrough day, or we can wish a personal hell on all people that think racist.
You still can change the perception that the world has of Americans, and today would be a great day to show the world that you are not so full of hate.
I love Snad's comment that she finds no joy in knowing that racists may be angry today. That is what I would love to see from most. During the civil war, both sides claimed the support of God. It was clear to each side that theywere doing the righteous thing. Such sentiments were voiced often enough for President Lincoln to observe, "God cannot be for and against the same thing at the same time".
We'll only make ourselves ever more deluded the longer we play this game. Good versus bad is clearly not the issue. There's something more fundamental at stake.
While I applaud freedom of speech, and your choice to name names and voice the hatred you have for these two individuals, I wonder if it does good to your cause, or paints you in a new light.
I struggled with writing this, as I enjoy your posts, and saw you differently until today.
I hope you enjoy today in a new light from a new dawn on America.
It is indeed sad that there remains so much bigotry in the world. But I think Obama has come to us at just the right time. He is a unifier. He ignites passion. And I'm hopeful he will continue to be a healer of the great divide(s)...black/white...
rich/poor...red/blue.
Today light a candle and send your good thoughts to the 44th president of these great United State...and to his beautiful family.
Tonight....dance...like no one is watching! And enjoy the celebration of a bright new world.
Last night I was telling a co-worker, who's in her mid twenties, that this was one of two things I never thought I'd see in my lifetime: the fall of the Berlin Wall and an African American President.
CNN was showing some things on Martin Luther King. I recounted to her the next couple of days after his murder-- how our teachers had to walk us home from school. There were riots going on in the African-American neighborhood a few blocks away. Watching the footage of King, I got choked up, thinking of how far we came last November.
I am listening to the inauguration on the radio and I am filled with a feeling of the possibility that this moment of history brings.
I wish your country the wisdom to make the most of this great opportunity.
Dave-You are mistaken. I am not being hateful when I tell everyone about two old hateful people, I am just being honest about those hateful people I knew. I did not hate either of thsoe men, I pitied them. This post is not about hate, it's about triumph over hateful people like the ones I knew.
this sums up how i feel exactly:
"It's a pleasure to be witnessing positive history being made after so many years of Bush's blundering."
great post, dr. m.
Thank you good Dr. I am glad I came back to read your comment on mine.
I am proud of Americans today.It was a long time coming.
This election is, to me, proof that most folks want to live in harmony and want what is best for the whole group. MLK said "the arc of history is long, but it always bends toward justice."
Just heard Ted Kennedy was taken from the luncheon in an ambulance. God be with him.
Thought of you more than once as I listened to it on the radio.
Oh, it's a very exciting and happy day. I can't wait to see how it's going to go. I'm optimistic!
Wow.
Inspiring post.
Interesting comments.
Incredible day!
*Bon Don*
Very nice post, Dr. I couldn't help though, when you spoke of Mrs. Lewis, thinking that she worked hard "to put food on her family"
Sigh. Will the memory of him ever go away?
I understand Dave's point, and I'm sure he's a very nice person, but I also understand how those two racist people could have affected you, and need to vent your feelings. For instance, I know that hate is wrong, but when I hear about domestic abuse after what I've been through in the past, I can't help feeling rage and disgust toward abusers.
I think blogging can be a catharsis for bad things you've endured, like the racism of these two men.
I could also add that although I've heard the odd racist joke here or there and witnessed "white flight," I haven't experienced the kind of deep-seated violent hate that could lead to something like lynching. I don't feel qualified to comment on the kind of distress being exposed to that level of hate can bring.
Sorry if I took up your comment section, Monkey. But if you need to let out some bad feelings from the past, I for one will not think less of you for it.
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